You Deserve Pleasure and Intimacy
As Femina, we have historically found ourselves in situations where we force and fake a performance of sex and by default turn something that is meant to be sacred into something that destroys us mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.
If you have ever been told "as a wife it is your duty to please your husband,” or “a good wife makes love to her husband whenever he wants it" or “that your husband cannot rape you by default simply because he is your husband," then You know what I am talking about.
Unfortunately, this ideology is so deeply ingrained in us that eventually the performance becomes our reality without us even realizing it.
We traditionally have not been taught that we have the right to enjoy sex, be sensual, or receive pleasure.
A femina's sensuality is often unseen and unheard unless she is over and hyper sexualizing herself.
Often, we believe that we don't have the right to say, “right now all I desire is to be held because that's what my soul needs.” Or “I am not wanting to because I am angry with you, so let’s discuss this instead of using sex as a mediator.”
Using your body for favors and attention is a distorted ritual of self-hate.
Being hypersexual is not sensual and we need to learn the difference between the two.
Pretending to orgasm so that your partner feels satisfied in their performance is cheating yourself out of your right to feel and receive pleasure.
Never feel so insecure that you believe it is ok to have sex when you don’t feel like it for fear of abandonment or cheating.
Every Femina should first become sexually intimate with herself before becoming sexually intimate with someone else. She should know what feels good to her and what doesn't.
Rest assured, a man will definitely tell you if you're not performing fellatio on him in a way that is satisfying and sexually arousing to him. You have that same right, without fear of rejection.
One of the most effective things you can do to begin to understand yourself intimately is via touch. And no, we aren't talking simple masturbation. Even though that is definitely ok. What We are talking about is sacred touch.
Sacred touch can be performed by yourself or by your partner, but it is indeed an act of self-realization. Through sacred touch you can come to know yourself in the most intimate of ways.
Imagine that your body is a harp, and one wrong strum of your fingers or his fingers will cause a resounding discord of sound. But.... the right touch, gentle yet sure, will create a symphony so harmonious that you will literally sing within.
Devine Pleasure is the perfect oil to help you become more intimate with yourself and your partner.
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