Hits The Spot
It is national feminas month, and at Devine Femina, we believe that every femina deserves pleasure. We believe that empowering feminas to honor their feminine sensuality encourages healthy and fulfilling intimacy.
There are reports that suggest a femina will rarely, if ever experience vaginal orgasm. There are reports that say vaginal orgasms are not necessary or valuable. There are reports that suggest we don't even need to experience a vaginal orgasm to have a fulfilling sensual life.
Well I call B.S.
A spot, G spot, V spot, and even O spot orgasms are possible, and as someone who has experienced them all, baybee... let me tell you....
Anyway, back to all these reports and societal norms...
for so long, femina sexual and sensual health have been regulated to the back burner. To desire pleasure or even experience pleasure is seen as wanton behavior. It has been categorically declared wicked and unseemly for a femina to desire sexual pleasure. It is considered "unladylike" to enjoy sex. This is what we are taught in society. But most men desire a femina who enjoys sexual intimacy and who desires to not only please her partner, but to be pleased as well.
And… for the most part, because we have been taught to devalue our own pleasure, we have done the unspeakable. Fake orgasms.
Yeah I said it.
We have been faking orgasms for so long, we don't see anything wrong with it. But... that is where we have been doing ourselves the most disservice. Faking orgasm creates a false sense of security for our partners. It is not our responsibility to help our partners feel masculine and secure in his sexual ability. It is his responsibility to help bring us pleasure. And loves, if this is not happening for you, it is your responsibility to, in love and with sensitivity, let him know that you need and deserve more.
enliven to your devine sensual self….
All over the body we have erogenous zones. Knowing where yours are is essential for foreplay. In addition, the right touch can facilitate an erogenous zone orgasm.
The vaginal vestibule or V spot is the lease often talked about vaginal erogenous zone. Located at the opening of the vagina, or the area just before entering the canal, right past the labia minora (lips), the V spot contains a ton of nerve endings. One of the most sensitive parts of the V spot is the fourchette, which is located at the bottom of the vaginal opening, on the posterior of the opening. This is why vaginal massage is so pleasurable.
The clitoris, the famous mound of nerve endings, is not just external. It’s internal as well and its parts stretch inside the body. These parts are easiest to stimulate through the vagina, at the end of which, we find the Grafenberg or G spot.
The G spot, which sits somewhere within the first two inches of the vagina, is compromised of the urethral sponge, clitoris, and Skene's Glands. Stimulation of the G spot has been known to produce powerful orgasms, femina 'ejaculation,' and can help during the arousal phase of the femina sexual response cycle. The Skene's Glands are considered the femina prostate, and are believed to be the home of the femina ejaculation.
The anterior fornix or A spot is located just past the G spot on the same anterior wall of the vagina. It sits approximately 4-6 inches inside the vagina, whereas the G spot sits approximately 2-3 inches inside the vagina. Gently putting pressure on the anterior vaginal wall stimulates this spot and can cause an orgasm. Everyone’s internal clitoral structure is different, so the A spot may be in a slightly different spot.
Only natural born feminas have an A spot.
A spot orgasms are usually more intense and longer lasting than G spot orgasms. Stroking this spot creates extra lubrication as well.
The O spot, sometimes called the C spot, is located behind the cervix, deep inside the vaginal canal. This area has pressure-sensitive nerve endings. So, when you put pressure on the cervix, it can engage this pleasure area, creating intense orgasmic pleasure. Pay attention to how you feel during sex, as this area is more sensitive during certain phases of the menses. Too much pressure can cause bruising or pain.
profound vaginal orgasms are your birthright!
The best positions for A, O, and G spot orgasms are doggie style, cowgirl, the snake, gee shell, and lifted missionary. Because every femina is not built the same, trying variations of these positions is highly recommended until he hits that spot.
Devine Pleasure is the perfect oil to help you become more intimate with yourself and your partner.
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